June Post #1 - A Personal Reflection - Responding to anti-Black racism

by: Ms Walker - an accomplice in dismantling the system-



I have written and rewritten this post too many times to count. I have started and stopped. Deleted. Used Ctrl+Z so many times the lettering is fading on the keys. Reflected. Thought about not writing a post. Decided not to write post. Decided I needed to write a post - thought about who I was writing it for. Decided to write a post but not post it. Decided to write a post and post it (if I ever finish it). The whole experience reminded me of Eng4U students in the RiNC sem 1 trying to write their MTP! :)


What I realize in looking back at my process and indecisiveness in writing this post is this: I was only thinking about me. I was only worried about my feelings and how I might be affected by the words I chose to use - I was hiding behind my fear of judgement - my fear of being wrong - I was hiding behind my white privilege.


Last summer, I read White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo. I took many things away from that reading:


1. It was not an easy read.

2. I had to do a great deal of self-reflection and that was tough because I realized

something about myself that I was not proud of and something I would never have

described myself as...

3. I was a racist - tough to say - tough to type -


Anyone reading this who knows me wouldn't use this word to describe me either, I don't think, but here is what I have learned from my reading. DiAngelo states that:

[we] have to change our idea of what it means to be racist. As long as you define a racist as an individual who intentionally is mean, based on race, you’re going to feel defensive. When I say you’ve been shaped by a racist system—that it is inevitable that you have racist biases and patterns and investments—you’re going to feel offended by that. You will hear it as a comment on your moral character.  You’re going to feel offended by that if you don’t change how you’re interpreting what I just said. [...]
When we understand racism as a system that we have been raised in and that its impact is inevitable, it’s really not a question of good or bad. It’s just, “I have it. I have been socialized into it.” And so, “What am I going to do about it?” is really the question. And that’s where, I think, maybe some guilt could come in, when you know that and you’re still not going to do anything about it.[...] So, let me be really clear: As a result of being raised as a white person in this society, I have a racist worldview. I have racist biases. I have developed racist patterns as a result, and I have investments in the system of racism. (DiAngelo Teaching Tolerance)

4. I have accepted that "I have it" and "I have been socialized into it".

5. I have accepted the guilt and shame I feel because of "it". These emotions are normal

reactions but I cannot allow them to consume me to the point that I remain

complacent.